Information about counselling

Welcome to Growing Roots Counselling, your trusted partner for therapeutic support in Parksville, British Columbia. Specializing in helping teens and young adults, I understand that navigating life's challenges can bring many questions. Here, you'll find answers to some of the most common inquiries about counselling and how we can support you or your child on the journey to personal growth and well-being.

Frequently asked questions

At Growing Roots Counselling, I believe that understanding is the first step towards healing and growth. We've compiled a list of common questions from teens, young adults, and parents to provide clarity and ease any concerns you might have about starting your counselling journey with us in Parksville, BC.

Do I really need counselling, or am I just overreacting?

It's common to question whether your feelings or experiences warrant professional support. Many teens and young adults wonder if their struggles are "big enough." At Growing Roots Counselling, we believe that if something is causing you distress, it's worth exploring in a safe, confidential space. There's no such thing as "overreacting" when it comes to your mental well-being.

How do I know if counselling will help my child?

Counselling can provide a neutral and supportive environment for your child to process emotions, develop coping strategies, and understand themselves better. Many parents observe improvements in communication, emotional regulation, and overall well-being. We focus on helping young individuals open up their potential and navigate challenges like family cycles, personal trauma, or assaults.

What can I expect from my first counselling session?

The first session is primarily an opportunity for us to get to know each other. We'll discuss your concerns, what you hope to achieve, and I'll explain more about my approach. It's a low-pressure conversation designed to ensure you feel comfortable and understood. There will be some initial paperwork, but the focus is on creating a safe space for dialogue.

What happens after a counselling session?

After each session, you'll have time to reflect on what was discussed. Sometimes, I might suggest practices or thoughts to consider between sessions, but there's no pressure. The goal is to integrate insights into your daily life at your own pace. You're encouraged to share any thoughts or feelings about the session at the beginning of our next meeting.

Will you judge me or tell me what to do?

Absolutely not. My role at Growing Roots Counselling is to provide a non-judgmental, confidential space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings freely. I won't tell you what to do, but rather help you discover your own insights and solutions that align with your values and goals. My aim is to empower you, not direct you.

Will I, as a parent, be kept informed?

For adolescent clients, confidentiality is key to building trust. Information shared in sessions typically remains confidential between the counsellor and the teen, except in cases of harm to self or others. We can discuss a collaborative approach where general progress and goals are shared, respecting the teen's privacy while ensuring parents are supported. This is always discussed and agreed upon upfront.

What does a typical counselling session look like at Growing Roots Counselling?

A typical session lasts about 50 minutes and is a collaborative conversation. We might explore feelings, past experiences, current challenges, or future goals. It's a flexible process, tailored to your needs, incorporating techniques like talking therapy, mindfulness, or reflective exercises, all within a supportive and safe environment.

How do you help teens and young adults grow and be their best selves at Growing Roots Counselling?

My approach is not about changing who you are, but about helping you understand yourself more deeply. We'll work together to identify your strengths, process experiences like trauma or family dynamics, and discover your potential. It's about cultivating self-awareness and self-acceptance, empowering you to live authentically and confidently, building a strong foundation for your future.

Rooted in understanding, blooming with potential

My commitment at Growing Roots Counselling is to create a safe, supportive space where you or your child can explore their potential and understand themselves better, without judgment. I am here to help navigate family cycles, personal trauma, and everyday challenges, fostering resilience and self-discovery. If you're ready to take the next step towards personal growth, I am here to guide you.